Socio-communist laws prevent men from getting married because it is a business for women.
Hiding facts that must be revealed is lying. Intelligence is confused with wisdom. The number of marriages in Spain has fallen by 56% since 1975. Spain is the leading consumer of prostitution in the EU (third in the world). Data from the EU show that 4 out of 10 children born alive in Spain in the last 13 years have been born out of wedlock, each year an average of 14,500 fewer children are born than the previous year, and around one million abortions were performed. In the last decade, 700 women have been murdered by recent partners in Spain. Many things go wrong, including laws. Sancho Panza says: “whoever gets it right in marrying has nothing left to get right”. Spanish laws scaring the average man who runs away from marriage because, in case of divorce (requested by the woman in 90% of cases) they humiliate him. When the marital patrimony is reduced to the home, he has to leave (pay for his lodging), he will have to continue paying for the house that he does not use (if there is any debt left), potentially enjoyed by a third surrogate male, who will enjoy what he loses for free and pay. Legislation unsettles men provoking crimes. Marriage does not guarantee anything to the man, it is a certificate of losses deferred to divorce. Intelligence (natural and artificial) is overrated. An intelligent person is a quick accumulator of information, with no guarantee of complex understanding. A wise man has the acquired ability to combine intelligence, knowledge and experience (old enough) to produce a coherent understanding. The opposite of smart, is slow. The opposite of wise is stupid. Good decisions are made by the wise (not the smart, handsome, or rich). Confucius said: If you are the wisest in a precinct, you are in the wrong precinct (it is convenient to associate with people who are wiser than one). A couple shares a room for a long time, and Confucius recommends that the couple be at least as wise as we are so as not to get bored. Ethology, the part of biology that studies human behavior from an animal perspective, teaches without a doubt three things: (i) the couple is constituted by the choice of the female, (ii) the main indicator used by the female to select the male is the ability to generate resources for offspring (money),(iii) the female decides to have "eventual" contacts with partners other than the stable one (to maintain the species). The current marriage in Spain is a losing contract for the man, except for the miracle that there is no divorce. Sigmund Freud, knew the human well and said that men fall in love by what they see, and women by what they hear. Young people should know that reading more leads to better conversation than going to the gym. Ethology, Freud and Confucius suggest: (i) The more beautiful and less intelligent the woman is, the more chances she will have of choosing a stable partner (ii) If she is beautiful and intelligent, she will look for rich intelligent people. Being important, as Sancho says, it is natural for women to hesitate in choosing/abandoning a partner, with the added pressure of maternal expiration. Then the "sentimental advisers" appear, or command: family, married and divorced friends, who advise with the wisdom they have achieved. This is how divorce and mental traumas spread: you cannot be what others tell you to be without getting sick. Family policy is: "marry the daughter to a profitable man." For the rich of several generations (heirs), the "benefit" is a patrimony greater than their own (romantic love is the dream of the poor). Thus, they choose a partner with good assets; if it goes wrong, they divorce and they will earn jointly acquired assets, alimony if there are children. While the rich doubt and the marriage policy works, men with low salaries, unstable at work, without commitment take advantage of "eventual encounters" and feed love to the abundant and growing demand for separated women (130,000 per year). Marriage will continue to be practiced among the upper classes until the families of rich men understand what the poor already know: the current marriage is a business for women, by divorce law. Why get married, have children, when there are so many separated, prostitutes, and pets that don't abandon you?